The world is bad enough with mean enough people, you dont need your team mate trash talking you too. If Tom popped back into the picture at any point, Id have told my partner what happened. How long have you been the butt of their homophobic jokes? You should seek marriage counseling after this. Drunk or not, does not excuse their unwarranted behaviour. I suggest therapy for you for your feelings and how you want the relationship to proceed. I might not go as far as to say shes only sorry she got caught, but the current reaction is definitely because she got caught. Second, if you know somebody is making fun of you over something so intimate and personal, how can you enjoy it again? I just chain smoked and clinched the steering wheel so hard I thought I was gonna break it. About everything. EVERYTHING she did was awful and she clearly knew that she messed up (more than once). I told her I cant believe shed ever say something like that or not tell me how she felt.she continued to swear she was just being stupid and didnt mean or feel anything she said. Your wife doesn't have your back. I'd be worried what she would do if one or both of their kids are bi or gay. 1.) I'm reading all the comments and really appreciate the advice and support guys . First, I am so sorry she made those statements for whatever the reason. I could only imagine how crap you feel right now. It was a low blow, but fuck that shit. One friend asked her if she considered it and she said yes but ultimately she chose to stay with me because I made her happy and treated her better. Like who knows what other shitty conversations she participated in, especially since this isn't the first time they've expressed this kind of thinking. It actually did make me feel a little better. Its amazing where friendship comes from in the darkest of times. So she's been hiding this for a couple years instead of letting him in on all the jokes behind his back. How many people knew about it since she let it slip, considering she's telling the truth and it was only two years ago that she told somebody. For example, he keeps in touch with some of his exs and although it's his business he is always transparent with me because he know how I would feel if it was behind my back. He said if i wanna get together for a drink or whatever to let him know. I could never trust what to believe again. Come on, you're not 19 anymore. Why does she feel the need to show off to her friends in a way that makes them think less of you? At the beginning of the marriage endometriosis and disparei is, we spent almost an year without sex, I was always by her side, left the work early, never even thought about hookups or relief with other women. To her, you're the butt of the joke. The whole oh I was just really drunk excuse for any stupid decision is pure bullshit. But then she says.the only hurdle I had to get past with (me) was.well, you guys know.they all were kinda like mhmm as if to affirm they knew what she was talking about. I could give the benefit of the double and believe she fakes the homophobic/biphobic stuff for her friends. he was more "passionate" etc. The second is more complicated: She does see bisexuality as "unmasculine" or an emasculating trait, however, you cant actively deny her feelings on the subject; theyre just her opinion on it. Your wife definitely violated your trust by sharing that information with her friends. Just remember she was crying because she was caught. Her motivation doesn't change that the fact that you deserve someone that stands up to their friends. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your marriage. You can't act if you don't know how you feel. Good luck, brother. She violated a boundary. I mean the "I overheard my wife say something upsetting about me to her friends" genre is a little played out. She hurt you fucking badly. Do those stupid things include degrading your bisexual SO to friends with homophobic views? So (and this is where your perception of the relationship comes in) you have to determine whether she was going with the flow of the conversation or whether she does actually have an issue with that. If you love her and things work, then your answer is clear. I mean, youre not wrong petty king/queen. So will she keep acting to her friends like she has a problem with it? Ugh I'm angry for you OP, but I agree with the other posters. As for your wife - I think her feelings are understandable even if her actions were insensitive. Or will she stand by him, tell her friends she is the one who was lying because she was afraid of their reactions, and own her shit? I would want to know why, if it was me. And her dissing your sexual needs to her friends and I truly understand that it was very hurtful and disrespectful to you and your marriage. Smoked. At the very least there's some trust work that will need to be done to rebuild some things. Especially with the "gay" things they do. Or no, either way it was gross as fuck. She also needs to put her friends in their place or look for better friends. ", I doubt he cares about that, its mostly that his wife was saying all of those things behind his back but she acts like she likes it to him. Youd be second guessing everything they tell you from here in. First of all, I think we all say less than admirable things about our SOs at times. What she did was just bottom of the barrel type of shit. As an aside, in tandem I would "shore up" the masculine vibe (I'm reluctant to say it, but if shes confronted with sommething she may traditionally view as feminine then it will prove a great juxtaposition if you are more "direct and masculine" while shes going through this priocess). Your wife's unfortunate refusal to do the same speaks to her character too. I was pooping and you helped me push from laughing so hard. Honestly man if I found out my partner thinks so little of me because of my sexuality, especially after what you guys do in the bedroom, I would honestly hand her divorce papers and let her know that she can enjoy her friends company more since she's not with the bi guy anymore and she can go be with Tom like she wanted. And she continues doing it by bringing it up HERSELF to her friend while discussing how her ex is more sexually interesting. You don't have to let it go. There were many times where we wanted to throw in the towel. I would DIE if my husband mocked me being bi like your wife did. I will admit i dont tell my friends everything either, but if it comes up i wont join in and make fun of people who get made fun of for doing what i am into. Tell her to flip the genders and make it you and the "boys" doing "locker room talk" about her and all the things she likes in the bedroom. If it was truly a complete accident, she wouldn't continue joking about it with them. But something you might ask her about. Although, bi men have it way worse. I was going to say something identical. Isn't this basically reverse sexism? She destroyed your trust, and trust takes a long time to repair. Get your better halves and get the fuck out of my house I sniped as I tipped my fedora and winked at my wifes hottest friend who was clearly impressed by my rage erection that had partially split the seam in my relaxed fit Levi 501s. Your life, you know the relationship better than us, but this is plenty to break a marriage. I (45M) have been married to my wife (45F) for 20 years. You think youre slick enough to hide the resentment and anger but youre not. I don't think she is disinterested in the guy, but I will say I don't tolerate that kind of weakness. It was lovely that the mate called you and said what he did. . Let her know that if she wants to patch this up, its on her. This doesnt excuse anything. People do stupid shit. So here is a truth I don't think many men/women/etc get: SO's talk. It sounds more like it's a matter of comfort and trust. No matter how stupid, stupid turnt I got, I would NEVER be in a state of mind to let such a personal, private thing slip out. Wife: babe were you in the kit. I cut her off. I probably wouldnt have. For the record, any intelligent person knows that there is no straight/gay/bi sex acts. Seems like she might have played along a little too much to sound cool to her friends. Make sure she knows how traumatic that was for you. I'd be more open about your sexuality; if you've nothing to hide then the nasty wives have nothing to attack. also drunk talk often means honest thoughts of a person. There was also probably some truth to her bedroom comments. I told her she needed to answer everything I ask her honestly and she promised she would. Right I mean she volunteered stuff when she could have kept her mouth shut. Why would she tell them that you enjoy pegging? I totally dont get why she would lie and say he begged for the gay stuff if she was wanting it. Next time she will really consider how the way she's talking to her friends could make you feel. She knows shes an ass, and her friends know their actions were trash. Its so stupid, Im sure shes great in all other aspects but she needs to stand up for you. Things ended when Tom took a job across the country and my wife chose not to follow him. From everything, the most painful one was when exposition. Of course she's only sorry she got caught but think about it, how many times they've been making fun of you from their girls night outs? When my husband and I had been together for maybe a year, I went to my mom exactly once for advice. Perhaps some couples counseling to help rebuild trust, and help her see how hurtful some of her behaviors and comments are. At the end of the day, it is you who'll decide what makes you happy not them! We have been married for more than 10 years and have . It sucks. Once your sexual history was out in the open and left you vulnerable to her girlfriends judgements, she decided to join in and talk shit about it and mention that she thinks of other men while pleasuring you since it turns her off. My late uncle had to watch his wife leave him on his sick bed because she couldn't bring herself so be seen that way, talking about "a whole me tending to a sick man, me I can't oh let his family do it ".. Is she going to listen to her friends claim that you being bi has somehow swayed them? Be happy anyway. No pun intended. I don't thibk this calls for a divorce but itw definitely a violation of trust and deserves to be handled as a serious issue not a minor mistake. Stand firm in that it wasn't okay to disclose private information that you didn't want to be made public. Im so sorry this happened. If she isn't willing to do both of those things, then she is proving she doesn't value you enough, or is sorry enough for the damage she's caused, to be worth staying with. This was not stupid. If you can't own up to what you're doing in the bedroom, you aren't mature enough to be doing it. Remember also that it is okay to feel uncomfortable - instead of fighting these feelings, allow them to just pass through you. Personally I think you handled as well as could be expected - what with confronting the issue right away and pulling consequences for her violating your very personal boundary/secret. She pulled her friends into your marriage and made you the butt of a running joke. She maybe deserves the benefit of the doubt. The mmmhmmm's give that away. And if it was an accident, why did she give them details about what kinks you have? I can't stress enough how important it was that you didn't let this fester and at the same time you removed yourself from the situation to give yourself time to sort out your feelings. Your wife was actively talking shit about you behind your back when she thought you werent listening. Truly when you come to the realisation your partner has such a low view , I sympathise a lot with you dude. One of my wifes friends was fairly insistent about her divorcing me but honestly it came from a genuine place, its a weird situation and if you cant see how happy we are, I cant blame you for not getting it. After a very long silence, she said, "I guess we'll see how it all comes out in the wash anyway." They went to bed soon after. Your wife have no sense of conjugality. Hope you can solve things and come to a good end for you. Made her feel embarrassed and she knows that she fucked up. Birds of a feather flock together. All the sudden I didnt know my wife. Add on the fact that her friends were telling her that Tom was in town - thats another reason she needs to drop the problematic friends. Notice how she doubled down instead of being ashamed or saying that's not a subject for discussion? Maybe you could come around trusting her, but i wouldn't trust her friends. I keep my composure as best I can and open the slider to the patio and poke my head out. So she made you the butt of their jokes eventho she actively takes part in your sexlife and enjoys it. I don't know what I'd do. I dont air out our dirty laundry for anyone else to see, especially when it comes to sex. Im scrolling Reddit at night because its an escape from my own personal issues, so I might not be connecting some dots. We have good jobs that the pandemic didnt effect too much. And also, alcohol intake needs to be curtailed. She's painting an imaginary picture for these "friends" with absolutely no regard to the feelings of the person she's supposed to love & care for. It very much is and if you let them gaslight you and suppress how you actually feel, you will feel a huge burden and trust issues for the rest of your life. Don't leave mate just get a bit of counselling to talk through your feelings about this situation with her and get some grounding. No matter how many close and loving moments you have with your wife from this point forward, in the back of your mind youre gonna remember how easily someone -who you thought you were on the same team with- can piss all over that idea in exchange for making a few girls go no way?! She is trying to write this shit off as a mistake. Must feel betrayed and really hurt. I have also been outed in a similar way. Especially the part where she acts like its a close call between you and Tom to her girlfriends. You definitely have every right to be upset and angry, but I honestly feel like she is telling you the truth, and they were just unfortunately things you werent supposed to hear. I hope you can work it out. Sorry if this is all over the place. But try couples counseling and go from there. Whether or not its just because she got caught, I dont know. This is a recipe that you can utilize to get through a tough circumstance or even a bad day. My mom was told me drunk words are sober thoughts. Ban the girls from the house. For a moment I felt ashamed. Do good anyway. You might want to discuss that during counselling, or maybe with a therapist. Her to never talk to her friends?? My conjecture is that she did so because of the above reasons basically to seem cool. We may discuss, ask for suggestions, etc., but we don't laugh about one of us outing someone (not that we'd care) and trashing their sex life. What you say too each other is one thing but to the outside world your SO is the best cook lover protector whatever. 2.) We have 2 amazing kids. How this going to help him after he become joke to everyone he know !!!! She failed at the number one attribute an SO needs to be, your SO's most ardent defender. Your wives friends are just horrible little Voltures and spineless cowards, definitely go have that drink with your friend and have some time to just calm down and have a break from this shit show. Go see a divorce attorney. I will say at least you dumped the shit on the table straight away and didn't try to eat it by yourself. Shows you don't accept their judgemental BS. Will you ever be able to "do the bi stuff" in bed with her again? Bruuh this is too much for me I'm 52 yrs old, veteran, communications workers close to company retirement, whatever you do just enjoy life. The guy was asking her if she'd told me about them being together in the past. Theres people that will truly respect you and love you the right way. And I've faced this with my family-- I shut that crap down with a quickness. Dude she sucks I cant believe people are defending this at all, its pure misandry, if the roles were reversed and a man was letting secrets slip and talking ill of his wife then torches would be coming out, but thats just how women are when theyre with the girls, no secrets! Fuck all that haha, that is so disrespectful. They don't have her best interest at heart and they will just as quickly sow seeds of doubt to her evidently impressionable mind. OP, be worried that you're married to someone willing to lie about how they feel about you to have a better image for their friend group. Seems like part of the issue here is how ashamed you are of your own sexuality. she also choose to make fun of you to her friends instead of standing up for you. I told her to get a therapist to talk to about it but DO NOT TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT MY DICK essentially. Just want to say the other husband is a stand up guy. I'm not sure what her motivation was with not being up front with you about all of this, especially the telling her friends of your sexuality. She said 'girls talk' and she has to have someone to talk to about stuff. She brought her marriage outside where it shouldn't belong. She needs to do something to show how sorry she is. Anything she says in the moment right now can't be trusted because she'll do or say whatever it takes to keep you. Wife: Oh, nothing just a funny story from (friends name) work. There were 3 friends with her. Again this is a guess. Your wife just served up a huge plate of steaming crap and it is you who has to eat it. Personal details should remain private. Your wife really messed up. German Young Boy Seduce Big Tit Step-Mom to Lost Virgin 16:20. Weirdly enough, weve never gotten any negative feedback from our closest friends. Just here to let you know bi guys are preferable. Hows everything going out there? she asked motioning to the garage smiling nervously. Id also like to see those fun-o-phobes pack their bags and get out of your wifes life. I have no advice but as a fellow bi, my condolences. Just talk. In our response, lies our growth and our freedom. She violated your trust in one of the worst possible ways and there really isn't any way to walk it back, The thing that sucks the most is that now that there was a blowupthose judgmental friends who she told about your sexualitywill be running their mouths to all their other friends and coworkers and more and more people will be told something you never wanted shared. Still, you are gonna have a serious talk and you're gonna have to make her understand this was unacceptable. There are hundreds of roles people play all the time. Whats the point in being in relationship, in a marriage if you can't have ALL of trust, loyalty, and respect. Youre delusional. It was a private part of your life that you trusted her with. Implying that OP's "flaw" as husband material is because he not 100% straight and slept with men is homophobic. That was 100% a choice on her part. When you have a PARTNER that partner should be in your corner 100% of the time. If you don't care about your partner enough to defend them when they aren't there, why the fuck are you even with them? They had quiet music playing and were talking amongst themselves. It actually did make me feel a little better. Second communicate. It felt terrible. I think it wouldve been different if maybe she had some concerns and needed someone to confide in about it, but she shouldve never allowed them to speak about you that way. Me: girls, get your better halves and get the fuck out of my house They all pop right up and walk past me. The real question on my mind is why is she friends with people who belittle you for your sexuality? I would be so freaking upset & sad. Do not let anybody minimize this either. She told him that he was drunk and that no she hadn't told me. Dont just move on forget, learn from it. Right? At the end of the day hets are gonna het, I'm really sorry man. She needs to take responsibility for it and how it made you feel. I am a closeted bi woman. Whatre you guys laughing about? I ask with a smile playing stupid. It was lovely that the mate called you and said what he did. I packed a bag, kissed the kids goodbye, and told them I was going to grandmas house to help her with something. i would like to add a partner should never ever make you feel ashamed or embarrassed about your sexuality. No. I found out that Im extremely affects by stress, including fight at home. Do NOT let her tell you your feelings are wrong. Second, I am sorry you heard them given that I dont know exactly what it would take to rebuild trust from where you are currently. Don't minimize the situation and don't let anyone gaslight you into thinking you are overreacting or that this isn't divorce-level situation. Try marriage counseling and perhaps moving away for a new start. But it does happen and people can surprise you. Accept yourself, just try to improve. All I can tell you is that it will all pass in good time, and you deserve better, and if she cant be better it ought to be from someone else. I agree with this comment as a bi person! Seems to me that because of her indifference to your feelings, she needs to get rid of those friends because she emasculated you in front of them. Its very helpful to be able to be open about everything with our friends, cause it makes our open marriage life so much easier without having to keep it secret and hidden, so Im really sorry that you guys have to keep your bisexuality such a secret. Ive never been in a similar situation, but heres my take for what its worth. I'm not sure how to help you, but your wife needs better friends. This story isnt funny but that first line killed me. hey i mean, im not married, live with my bf and have 2 cats and a dog. Shitty situation man. And the fact that you're now married and settled down with a woman means you probably have a preference for women overman anyways it's 2021 dude closet doesn't have a lot of people left in it and, needing it to still feel manly is the ultimate problem here. I dont get down with revenge fucks, but if I thought she was super malicious Id be behind that comment. If she does it again then it's a bigger issue but i'm sure this will be a big learning moment for her and you will both be in a better place for it. You two will need some couples counselling after this incident, and some of what you will do in the future will be decided by if you can overcome a natural feeling of anger and resentment that you feel. Her voice was strained and raspy. You pave the way for us, and I appreciate you tons. "My. Are there no angry bi men who look like grocery store managers? IDK what it's like to be bi and married but I am sure it present some special problems/concerns with you and your status in your social circle. Will you ever be able to trust her with any important information again? Finding this out, I personally dont know if I could get past it. Divorce is an option if you cant get past this but it deserves an effort. OP can do better than Tom. I wouldnt let her off the hook easily, but we all say and do some dumb stuff and I think she deserves a chance make it up to you and resolve the situation. Divorce. That is a childish excuse, to blame alcohol for being a terrible friend and partner. Here are some of my favorite quotes (I collect them). Im sorry dude but girlfriends have secrets and Im pretty sure that there are conversations youve had that youd be ashamed for your wife to have heard. Partners that demand that have no respect for you. Your wife outed you. I dated a man who tried to beat the bisexuality out of me because the few girl friends I had were "my type." For years. And her dissing your sexual needs to her friends and I truly understand that it was very hurtful and disrespectful to you and your marriage. She might actually be into the stuff you guys do but is pressured by her friends to be a shitty person. Tuesday night we hosted a small gathering (all vaxxed) with some of our couple friends. Your wife violated your trust multiple times. She said two of her friends are judgmental and believe youre either gay or straight and since I enjoy men (only sexually, not romantically) I must be gay. Wife and I have been married 7 years and its literally the marriage everyone wants. My only advice is to give it time. But she's obviously done it before - all her friends knew it was okay to discuss and laugh about while she joked about letting him do "gay" stuff while she fantasies about other men. It's not a secret, kept in a fault. 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